The Family Room (The Quest)

Join co-hosts Mari Cleveland from St. Jude the Apostle and John Gordon and Craig Wesemeyer from St. Peter Chanel as they speak with authors, theologians, and local priests and lay leaders to provide your family encouragement, resources, and hope. Enjoy heartfelt stories and engaging conversations with Catholics who are excited to share their life experiences and acquired wisdom to help your family continue to live out your faith with joy.
Apr 16, 2025
Love Heals
Pregnancy Aid Clinic
Sarah Weikert, Executive Director, and Andre White, Fatherhood Program and Facilities Manager 


Sarah Weikert and Andre White from Pregnancy Aid Clinic (PAC) share the incredible work they are doing to provide help and hope to mothers and fathers. Operating from the Catholic belief in the sanctity of life, PAC compassionately delivers services and programs created to lift up women, men, and families during moments of uncertainty or grief, through a journey designed to reveal their own dignity and claim their own future.

Pregnancy Aid Clinic is a non-profit center that has been providing medical services, patient advocacy, parenting education, and post abortion healing regardless of financial ability, race, age, or religion since 1984. PAC’s care addresses the whole person - mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual - in a compassionate and nonjudgmental way.​ The clinic offers comprehensive programs for mothers and fathers to navigate from pregnancy to parenthood with a focus on parenting and life skills. They strive to protect children by strengthening families.​ PAC has clinics in Roswell, Atlanta, and Forest Park.

PAC’s services are free thanks to donations, grants, and committed volunteers who work together to create a support system that makes it possible for mothers and families to choose life. Operating from a Catholic philosophy, they are blessed to have the endorsement of the Archdiocese of Atlanta.

The Fatherhood Program at Pregnancy Aid Clinic is designed to empower men to embrace their roles as fathers, offering them resources, guidance, and a supportive community to help them succeed. Classes geared toward men cover key areas like spirituality, childcare, parenting, career development, and leadership skills. The program equips men to become engaged, responsible fathers who protect and nurture their families while building essential life skills.

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  • Visit PAC's website to learn more about their services and volunteer opportunities or call 404-763-4357.
A God-sized Faith Project
Dr. Will Boegel, podiatrist and founder of Opal House Guatemala


Throughout the Gospels, Jesus says those who leave everything behind to follow and serve Him will reap innumerable rewards in the present age and eternal life in the age to come. Most know this Scripture promise, but few live it out. 

Dr. William Boegel and his wife, Diane, found that God had a plan for their lives only after they let go of their own dreams to follow God’s prophetic nudges. Dr. Will’s early childhood traumatically prepared him to be vulnerable, opening a conduit to God at an early age. He and Diane met over a scrub sink after surgery and, once married, made a commitment to serve God by serving others in the medical mission field.

What they never expected was the supernatural tug to purchase a dilapidated avocado farm in a rural Mayan lake region that has become Opal House, a refuge for medically compromised, impoverished children of Guatemala. There they provide physical, spiritual, and educational nourishment to these children as well as medical and surgical services to the surrounding community. To date, Dr. Will estimates they have performed more than 500 children’s orthopedic surgeries, giving hope of normalcy to these children and their families. 

Everyone, including Dr. Will and his board, volunteer their time. All donations go directly to the Guatemalan people through the efforts of Opal House and the many volunteers who visit the farm to help out. Check out their website for volunteer and fundraising opportunities.  

Bio: Dr. William Boegel and Diane were married in early 2004. They have always volunteered as medical missionaries and have served in Mexico, Guatemala, Egypt, and Vietnam, performing surgeries for Healing the Children and Operation Serve International. After years of short-term mission trips, they were called by God to make a long-term investment into Guatemalan society for broken and impoverished children. Dr. William Boegel is a Physician of the Foot and Ankle (Podiatrist) and Diane is a Surgical Technologist.

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Living God’s Plan for Your Family
Kathleen Conklin, educator, innovator, and mom


Kathleen Conklin always had an apostolic heart and felt called to mission when she was still a young mom. With a degree in Education, she searched for an organization where she could use her skills as an educator as well as find support for her young family. She started a preschool as well as a business, but felt something was missing. After hearing of a new initiative starting up in Texas, Kathleen and her husband made the huge leap of faith and moved their family from Michigan, first with Catholic Kids Net and eventually launching Kids for Jesus (K4J) which ran for 20 years and reached tens of thousands of families across North America.  

Motivated by this success and a yearning to see Catholic families thrive, Kathleen and her team have developed First Fruits, whose vision is for communities of young families to live a dynamic Catholic life and support one another. First Fruits has been set up as a two-year program of faith building with small groups meeting six times yearly in order to learn the twelve Guiding Principles which will become the guideposts to help their families grow in virtue. We can no longer give our children a set of rules and expect them to obey and thrive. The internet has leveled the playing field and with First Fruits, each family uncovers the unique story God is writing for their family and discovers the joy of living God’s plan for their lives.  

Kathleen Conklin grew up in a Catholic family with five sisters, meeting her non-Catholic husband, Don, at a red light. He was smitten enough to begin attending Mass with her every week and within six months they were married. Within 13 months they had their first child and are now parents of 7 children and 13 grandchildren, having just celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary! Their oldest child, Ronald, is a priest with the Legionaries of Christ.    

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What’s a Catholic Mentor?
Jack Beers, speaker, founder of The Catholic Mentor


As a previous guest, Jack Beers' insight into the importance of relational mentorship left us wanting to know more.

Everyone agrees 2020 was such a watershed moment that conversations pivoted dramatically, often making relationships more difficult. People started to be controlled by their feelings, unable to cope with the hard decisions life threw at them. Finding help often brought more angst as differing world views offered solutions which were harmful to spiritual growth. Jack believed their ability to grow depended upon access to someone who shared their values and was trained to accompany them with an intensity that would boost their confidence. What he created is The Catholic Mentor, which is not life coaching or therapy or spiritual direction. Rather, it incorporates aspects of each one in a relational format which is based on sound psychology, focusing on both the spiritual and emotional needs of each person. 

A critical difference is The Catholic Mentor format gives each client access to their mentor through daily text messages, thereby introducing and reinforcing real-time coping skills. They learn their feelings no longer need to control them and graduate with a newfound confidence in their ability to handle the daily challenges of life. He invites listeners to contact him for a free 30-minute conversation to learn more. 

Jack’s father is Jewish and his mother is Episcopalian, which he jokingly says led him to be a “confused Jew” by his teen years. Enticed to attend a Catholic Mass by a girlfriend at 17, Jack had a supernatural encounter which led him to explore the Catholic Church, finally entering in 2012. He and his wife, Katie, have three children, ages four, two, and a newborn. 

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The History of Transgenderism
Dr. Quentin Van Meter, pediatric endocrinologist


Few topics cause more confusion than transgenderism. The internet opened doorways to ideologies unheard of when today’s parents were teens, and they feel totally unprepared. Dr. Quentin van Meter helps clear the confusion. As a colleague of Dr. John Money, the psychologist who first attempted to transform an infant boy into a girl after a botched circumcision, Dr. Van Meter explains how prestigious Johns Hopkins University became the unwitting accomplice of Dr. Money’s personal theories on gender identity. 

The first transgender clinic opened in Boston in 2007. Back then boys wanting to transition outnumbered girls 2-to-1. Now, girls outnumber boys almost 4-to-1. What happened? Today there are approximately 70 clinics nationwide, not including Planned Parenthood and online clinics that dispense puberty blockers. International studies now show puberty blockers cause permanent infertility. 

Rejecting the notion that gender can be changed with medicines and surgery, Dr. Van Meter states unequivocally, “You can never become the opposite sex.” Understanding that hormones are the keys to unlock the body’s receptors, the endocrinologist started a medical practice which uses the correct biological terminology, helping patients safely navigate into adulthood. Allowed to mature naturally, most gender-confused teens grow into well-adjusted adults.

Much of Europe has begun to ban both hormonal and surgical manipulation of people who suffer from gender confusion. Thankfully, with the guidance of doctors like Dr. Van Meter, we are beginning to see similar closings in America. See his excellent resources below. 

Born to an Orthodox/Ukrainian mother and agnostic father, Quentin was attracted to both Kathy and her love of Catholicism while in college. Married now for 55 years, they are the proud parents of four children and seven grandchildren and attend the Cathedral of Christ the King in Atlanta.

Dr. Van Meter graduated from the College of William and Mary in 1969. He attended the Medical College of Virginia where he received his medical degree in 1973. Dr. Van Meter did his pediatric internship (1973-1974) and his pediatric residency (1974 to 1976) at the Naval Regional Medical Center in Oakland, through the University of California, San Francisco. He completed his pediatric endocrinology fellowship from 1978 to 1980 at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine.

Dr. Van Meter worked as a staff pediatric endocrinologist at the Naval Hospital in San Diego from 1980 to 1986 and was Chairman and Director of the residency training program at the Naval Hospital Oakland from 1986 to 1991. In 1991, he retired from a 20-year career in the Navy Medical Corps and moved to the Atlanta area where he joined the Fayette Medical Clinic as a Pediatrician and Pediatric Endocrinologist.

To better serve the ever-expanding population of pediatric patients with endocrine disorders, he developed his own full-time endocrine practice which today bears his name. He is a clinical associate professor of Pediatrics at Morehouse School of Medicine and former adjunct Associate Professor of Pediatrics at Emory University School of Medicine. He is also the past president of the American College of Pediatricians. 

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Feb 26, 2025
The Morning Quest
 Allison Dalloul and Josh Harris, hosts of The Morning Quest


Atlanta has a vibrant Catholic community, but until recently there was no outlet to pull them together with exciting radio programming that speaks to their Catholic identity in a way that invigorates their faith and encourages them to find kindred spirits. Such a venue, The Morning Quest, was created last September by Atlanta’s locally-owned Catholic radio station, AM 1160 The Quest Atlanta. Co-hosts Allison Dalloul and Josh Harris are the first to admit this gig took them by surprise and is living proof God orchestrates our steps beforehand.

Josh, a professional comedian, brings his quick wit to the show, where his love of comedy is overshadowed only by his zeal for sharing the faith. As a busy single mom raising three children, Allison tempers Josh’s hilarity with a good dose of maternal wisdom. Her easy laugh makes every guest and listener feel at home.  

The Morning Quest airs Monday through Friday from 8-9 a.m. Talented local guests discuss important national topics, and local priests step in to share reflections on that day’s Mass readings and saints. They augment their discussions with local news and traffic so those on their daily commute can stay informed.

Josh Harris grew up Jewish, and by his early teens decided to explore the many ways a teen could entertain himself. He knew his quick wit would bring attention, and by the time he was 23, Josh realized his life was a mess. He quickly acknowledges a 12-step program changed his life. Since then, Josh has grown closer to God, even spending 2 years in seminary. Now he joyfully joins Allison every morning on air and continues his career as a professionally-clean comedian.  

Allison is one of four girls born into a nominally-Catholic family, and it was her engagement to a non-denominational Christian that propelled her into a deep dive on Catholicism. She spent more than 20 years as the “Lenox Lady,” representing Lenox china here in Atlanta. After a subsequent marriage, divorce, and annulment, Allison lost her job when COVID hit. After a few quick years in the mortgage business, her vibrant personality as a volunteer at The Quest compelled management to invite her to be a co-host of The Morning Quest.

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  • The Morning Quest airs weekdays 8-9 a.m. ET and can be heard on your radio dial at AM 1160. You can also listen live or on demand on The Quest Atlanta website or app.
  • Learn more about Josh’s comedy
Sister, Soldier, Surgeon
Leisa Marie Carzon, PhD, educational leader, author


It’s not every day you meet a modern-day Joan of Arc, but when Dr. Leisa Marie Caron heard the story of Sister Deirdre Byrne, M.D., there was no going back. She wanted to know more about this woman who was a religious sister, an Army colonel, and a double-board-certified surgeon and physician. That was in 2020, and Dr. Leisa Marie Caron, a self-professed "mama bear" who was concerned about the country’s future, decided to look up this incredible woman and meet her in person.  Deeply impressed, it was at that meeting where Dr. Leisa asked permission to write a book about this woman who embraced three vocations at once. 

The book is called Sister, Soldier, Surgeon: The Life and Courage of Sr. Deirdre Byrne, M.D. With great love and precision, Dr. Leisa Maria paints a beautiful portrait of a woman whose surgeon father encouraged her to take care of others physically while magazines of missionary Sisters overseas challenged her to love them sacrificially. This spunky yet humble Sister will make you laugh and cry as you follow her life through battlefield surgeries and abortion-reversal miracles; a woman who personifies both the modern feminine genius and a living saint. 

Dr. Leisa Marie Caron is a lifelong Catholic who met her husband in church, and they have a 22-year-old son. Dr. Dede Byrne credits her lifelong love of both God and others to her parents, who instilled in their children a love of daily Mass and of serving others. Sr. Dede belongs to The Little Workers of the Sacred Heart and while their Mother House is in Italy, she serves in Washington, D.C., where she has a clinic in the basement of the convent. She also mentors local medical students on weekends.

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  • This website is dedicated to Sister Dede’s story, where you can purchase the book, Sister, Soldier, Surgeon: The Life and Courage of Sister Deirdre Byrne, M.D.
  • Abortion pill reversal website or call 1-877-558-0333

Don’t Stay Stuck
Jack Beers, speaker, founder of The Catholic Mentor


Every child dreams of becoming a successful adult with good, healthy relationships. Then life collides with dreams and they struggle, often stuck or aimlessly wandering without a rudder. As a young man, Jack Beers saw the incredible difference it made when a priest accompanied him on his spiritual journey. His direct accompaniment, even to the point where the priest’s challenge put an exclamation point on Jack’s level of commitment, solidified Jack’s determination to help others in much the same way.

Still a young father today, Jack’s passionate determination led him to seek out a program through The Catholic Psych Institute to be trained to accompany individuals through the storms of life by integrating sound psychology and authentic Catholic anthropology. This led Jack to create The Catholic Mentor whereby he helps people become the man or woman God created them to be. Jack explains how his program, unlike a spiritual director or life coach, provides daily, one-on-one accompaniment with an intensity that not only helps his clients discover their hidden obstacles, but challenges them to integrate God into their lives in order to eradicate those obstacles. In this way, his clients can achieve true healing in a spiritual, emotional, and physical way.

Jack’s father is Jewish and his mother is Episcopalian, which he jokingly says led him to be a “confused Jew” by his teen years. Enticed to attend a Catholic Mass by a girlfriend at 17, Jack had a supernatural encounter which led him to explore the Catholic Church, finally entering in 2012. He and his wife, Katie, have three children, ages four, two, and a newborn.  

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Feb 5, 2025
Drop Your Nets
Gerry & Mel Martins, lay Catholic missionaries


There are many ways to be counter-cultural, and the Martins are perfect examples. Both Gerry and Mel were raised Catholic in Bombay, India, where Catholics represent less than 2% of the population. The typical birthrate is one or two children, and the Martins just welcomed their seventh child. They met in college where Mel admits she literally stalked Gerry. His parents wanted him to focus on his schoolwork, not Mel, so they dated for nine years before getting married. After graduation, Gerry pursued his dream to be a fashion photographer, and Mel became a teacher.  

In 2014 while on vacation, they met a Catholic missionary couple who invited them to a discernment retreat for Family Missions Company, a lay missionary ministry. They’d never heard of Catholic lay missionaries, but this retreat changed their lives. Multiple bizarre events caught their attention and each one, individually, felt God saying “Drop your nets and follow Me.”  They’d drifted away from their faith in college and were now the parents of two children, but both became convinced God was calling them to radical faith, asking them to give up everything to follow Him.  Even though they faced strong hurdles, God miraculously took care of every need.      

Melody (Mel) Martins was born into an active Catholic family who gave her a “beautiful, holy childhood.” Gerry was an only child who participated in Church as an altar boy and member of the choir. Together they and their children serve as lay missionaries through the Family Missions Company.  Gerry is also the director of Encounter School of Ministry’s satellite campus based in Augusta, Georgia.

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Family Pilgrimages
Dave and Nina Hancharik, parents and grandparents


Dave Hancharik was our guest in August 2024 for the episode titled “The Gift of Autism,” where he shared the experience of raising a non-verbal child and how a program called “Spellers” helped give his son, Seth, a voice. In this episode we also have Dave’s wife, Nina, who shares his enthusiasm, pointing out that "Spellers" changed their family’s life, opening up more opportunities with Seth, who is one of 11 children.

Vacations with such a large family can be tricky, and since Nina was a recent convert, she looked for opportunities to learn more about Catholicism. It was this curiosity that led Nina to discover the Catholic tradition of pilgrimages - most often pointing to faraway places. While pilgrimages can be arduous and sacrificial, Nina learned the biggest difference between a pilgrimage and a vacation was that one was for fun while the other helped you grow in your faith. It was their large, blended family that sparked her interest in finding local places of religious interest to visit.  

Nina became adept at finding religious places of interest and then scouring for locations nearby where she could help her family fall in love with the rich heritage of their Catholic faith while growing closer as a family. Even today, with five grandchildren, the Hanchariks love taking family pilgrimages.  

While Dave shared in his previous episode that he was born Catholic and drifted away, Nina shares that she was born into a Presbyterian family in St. Louis, Missouri. Early in their marriage, Dave joined Nina in the Presbyterian Church and then both studied their way back into the Catholic Church after seven years. Dave and Nina successfully blended their family of 11 children, entering marriage with three young teens as part of Dave’s “upper five” joining Nina’s six children. Today they are the proud grandparents of five.  

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If You Get the Women, You Get Everybody!
Carrie Gress, author, philosopher, and mom


When you look at a culture, the way women behave will dictate how the men and children respond. That’s a harsh statement, but Dr. Carrie Gress stresses this realization helped form her decision to win back the hearts of women.

Betty Friedan’s 1963 book, The Feminine Mystique, promised women equality with men and liberation from their comfortable concentration camps at home. Through manipulating emotions and maligning motherhood, feminism aimed to make women independent of husbands, children, and faith. Men were portrayed as incompetent and self-absorbed. Sixty years later, with families crumbling, Carrie understood most women didn’t learn this through intellectual reading, but by the propaganda they found flipping through Cosmo magazine or watching The Oprah Winfrey Show. By portraying motherhood as a lost career, a “woman’s right to choose” cemented abortion in the culture, and Carrie understood it was the culture that had to be attacked head on.

As a prolific author, she describes her books as both a diagnoses and remedy to the maladies that plague today’s women. In her recent article for the National Catholic Register, “3 Essentials for Rebuilding a Pro-Life Culture,” Carrie shows how feminism’s corrosive ideology preaches a gospel of discontent to women and shows that real womanhood is what God intended for them all along. 

Carrie Gress, Ph.D., is a fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center and a scholar at the Institute for Human Ecology at The Catholic University of America. She is editor of the online women’s magazine, Theology of Home, and co-author of its book series. Holding a doctorate from The Catholic University of America, she is the author of several books, including The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us, The Marian Option: God’s Solution to a Civilization in Crisis, and The Anti-Mary Exposed: Rescuing the Culture from Toxic Femininity. She is also co-author with George Weigel of City of Saints: A Pilgrims Guide to John Paul II’s Krakow. Carrie’s work has appeared in numerous publications, and she is a frequent radio and podcast guest, appearing on Fox, BBC, CBC, EWTN, OAN, and Russia Times television. A home-schooling mother of five, she and her family live in Virginia. 

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Jan 15, 2025
How to Pursue God
Jonah Soucy, speaker, musician, author


A self-professed youth group kid who tagged along with his youth-minister mom, Jonah Soucy was able to observe her patient nurturing of those in her charge. Perhaps due to this early exposure, Jonah has a great depth of understanding about how we can develop a meaningful relationship with God. Growing up in the White Mountain range of New Hampshire, Jonah first experienced God through nature, seeing how creation points to the Creator. He continued to pursue God and spent a year before college with NET Ministries, giving over 117 retreats in that time – and falling in love with ministry.   

Now a youth minister himself, Jonah discovered how recent generations learned to find God through liturgy or watered-down catechesis. Today’s youth yearn for something deeper – a true relationship with their Creator. What does that look like? Drawing on centuries of Catholic prayer, Jonah’s book, 40 Days, 40 Ways to Pray, offers reflections on 40 prayer methods, along with practical strategies to grow in holiness. The diversity of methods gives everyone a chance to develop their own unique relationship with God. Additionally, the book highlights common challenges faced in prayer, helping you recognize and overcome distractions. Pursuing God should be a lifelong habit. Learning how to hear God and listen to Him takes practice. 40 Days, 40 Ways to Pray is perfect for anyone who desires to deepen their relationship with God.

Currently serving as a youth minister in the Diocese of Pittsburgh and the Pittsburgh-area contact for Life Teen Ministries, Jonah recently received a Master of Arts in Catechetics and Evangelization from Franciscan University. He lives in the South Hills of Pittsburgh with his wife, Shannon, and their son, Aiden.

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Blue Ridge Mountain Retreats
Tami Kiser, retreat director, teacher, author, speaker


Tami and Keith Kiser began dating in high school and found their love of God growing through a teen ministry called Young Life. They attended the same college where they continued to be active in Young Life, participating in their summer camp programs.  

This foundation has come full circle today with the Kisers purchasing a former camp, following their heart’s desire to create a retreat within the Blue Ridge Mountains of South Carolina where their guests can hear God through the beauty of nature. They named their property Heart Ridge Retreat and Cultural Center.  

With more than 60 acres, including a 5-acre lake, this property affords them the flexibility they need. They have individual rooms available for rent in the lodge or families can rent a cabin for a quiet getaway.  Church groups are welcome as well as family reunions or wedding events.  

Groups are invited to lead their own program or, because of their extensive retreat experience, the Kisers host several specific retreats each year, including father/son and mother/daughter retreats as well as their highly sought-after Summer Family Camp, held in weekly increments during the summer and expertly facilitated by the staff.   

Although located within the corridor of the devastating Hurricane Helene that came through in October 2024, their property remained largely unscathed and all repairs have been completed. Located about 2.5 hours north of Atlanta, this is a beautiful location for a restful family retreat.  

Keith Kiser has spent over 25 years as the head of a Catholic school, guiding and instructing not only students, but teachers and parents as well. Tami, besides raising a family, has been involved in planning women conferences and retreats in her diocese; and internationally to thousands of women online. She also is an author and speaker. Together, Tami and Keith are the parents of 10 children and 11 grandchildren.

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Looking Back and Forward
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