The Family Room (The Quest)

Join co-hosts Mari Cleveland from St. Jude the Apostle and John Gordon and Craig Wesemeyer from St. Peter Chanel as they speak with authors, theologians, and local priests and lay leaders to provide your family encouragement, resources, and hope. Enjoy heartfelt stories and engaging conversations with Catholics who are excited to share their life experiences and acquired wisdom to help your family continue to live out your faith with joy.
Challenging the Transgender Ideology
Mary Rice Hasson, policy expert on gender ideology

Transgenderism is fundamentally a rejection of what we’ve received as a son or daughter of God. Misguided advocates teach we should be able to create our own identity based on feelings.

Mary Rice Hasson is an attorney who has tackled the tsunami of gender confusion. She co-founded the “Person and Identity Project” (PIP) which aims to equip parents and faith-based institutions with the facts, resources, and expertise to promote an authentic vision of the human person and counter the culture when it comes to gender ideology. PIP experts speak, write, and conduct workshops on gender ideology so that, together, we can change the dialogue around gender. Rather than submitting to a false compassion which tries to coerce us into affirming a false narrative about the human body, PIP helps strengthen parents, pastors, and educators with appropriate language to guide their children and others to confidently affirm the truth.

Mary Rice Hasson was born into a strong Catholic family at a critical time when Church teachings were being discarded. Her parents picked up the slack and educated her in Catholic schools. A graduate of the University of Notre Dame and Notre Dame Law School, Mary is married to Seamus Hasson, and they are parents of seven grown children and grandparents of seven. Mary was diagnosed with M.S. during her sixth pregnancy and then her husband was diagnosed with Parkinson’s two years later. Rather than succumb to pity, they are living witnesses of trusting and surrendering to God. Currently, Mary’s M.S. is under control, and Seamus is wheelchair bound. 

Mary Rice Hasson is the Kate O’Beirne Senior Fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center in Washington, D.C. An attorney and policy expert, Mary has been a keynote speaker for the Holy See during the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women, addressing education, women and work, caregiving, and gender ideology, and serves as a consultant to the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family, Life, and Youth. She speaks frequently at national conferences, universities, and in dioceses across the country and has testified before the U.S. Senate, state legislatures, and the Australian parliament on parents’ rights and transgender issues.

Resources:
- Person and Identity Project (PIP)
- Catholic Women’s Forum:  The Catholic Women’s Forum provides a network for Catholic women scholars seeking fellowship and to influence the culture, and offers a forum for Catholic women to share faith, inspiration, and resources.
- Get Out Now: Why You Should Pull Your Child From Public School Before It’s Too Late by Mary Rice Hasson and Theresa Farnan, PhD
Forgiveness in Marriage
Fr. Elias Dorham, Melkite Catholic priest

Few people think of calling a Catholic priest “Grandpa,” but fewer still know there are more than 20 Eastern rites in the Catholic church, all of which are self-governing churches under the Pope, and most of which permit married priests. Fr. Elias Dorham, pastor of St. John Chrysostom Melkite Catholic Church in Atlanta, gives a short explanation of the differences between the Latin rite and the Eastern rites within the Catholic Church.

Having been married over 30 years and raising 10 children, Father Elias realized in his pastoral ministry that couples rarely create a safe place in their relationship for disagreements, often believing married couples shouldn’t fight. That led him to create a marriage-enrichment program which reframes the experience of conflict, offering couples solid guidelines for healthy marriages with healthy boundaries.

Through this online interactive workshop called “The 7 Principles Workshop,” couples learn that marriage is a place where they live out their witness to Christ, learning to ask for and extend forgiveness as a critical part of their path to Salvation. Partnering with Mount Tabor Counseling Center in Colorado, Fr. Elias facilitates this workshop, walking couples through the principles of effective marriages.

Fr. Elias was raised by his grandparents in a home without religion, and it wasn’t until his days in the Naval Academy that he felt called to explore Christianity. He was baptized Catholic in 1991 and married his wife, Shirley, shortly after graduation. They have 10 children, ages 30 down to 7 and 3 grandchildren (so far).

His extensive scholastic achievements include a Doctor of Ministry from St Vladimir’s Orthodox Theological Seminary. He also has an M.A. in Theological Studies from Christendom College, an M.S. in Information Systems Technology from the Naval Postgraduate School, and a B.S. in Political Science from the United States Naval Academy. Prior to ordination, his professional experience encompassed coaching and leadership development across the military, federal/local government, and technology sectors. Areas of particular interest include marriage-related ministry, Sacred Scripture, and liturgical theology.

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Leading Your Family Toward Heaven
Amanda and Jeff Schiefelbein, parents of seven children

Returning guest Jeff Schiefelbein and his wife, Amanda, share the journey of raising a family deeply rooted in faith. Jeff, a celebrated entrepreneur and father, previously gave listeners a glimpse of his faith-driven approach to life. This time, alongside Amanda, the conversation delves into the authentic joys and trials of leading a family of seven children, their commitment to Catholic values, and the powerful bond that prayer and intentionality bring to their marriage and parenting.

Listen as Jeff and Amanda, a fellow Aggie, recount personal stories of faith, vulnerability, and how they navigate their roles as parents and partners. From touching moments with their children to the strength found in sacramental grace, the Schiefelbeins provide wisdom and practical advice for nurturing a holy family amid life’s chaos.

Jeff and Amanda’s journey demonstrates that leading a family toward Heaven is about intention, love, and steadfast trust in God. As Jeff said, “Life’s trials are where God is most present.”

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Former Abortionist Discovers Mercy

Dr. John Bruchalski, founder of Divine Mercy Care


Discover compelling insights as former abortionist Dr. John Bruchalski takes us on his journey from abortion to life-affirming medicine. Dr. Bruchalski shares his powerful story of conversion and healing, giving listeners a look into the complexities he faced as a young Ob-Gyn. Once entrenched in the pro-choice medical establishment, Dr. Bruchalski’s transformative experiences - including a pivotal spiritual encounter - led him to found Divine Mercy Care and Tepeyac Ob/Gyn, offering compassionate, pro-life medical care for women and families. Packed with eye-opening, personal stories, this episode sheds light on the impact of faith, the power of mercy, and the healing process for those affected by abortion. Dr. Bruchalski shares candidly, reminding us that grace and redemption are available to all.

Dr. B, as he likes to be called, earned his medical degree from the University of South Alabama College of Medicine in 1987. He completed his Ob/Gyn residency at Eastern Virginia Medical Center and the Jones Institute for Reproductive Medicine in Norfolk, Virginia, in 1991. Dr. B received board certification in 1993. He and his wife, Carolyn, are the parents of two grown sons and one granddaughter.

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The Heart That God Gave You

Amelia Bielski, podcast creator


Amelia Bielski, the inspiring creator and host of The Heart That God Gave You podcast, shares her journey of faith, the inspiration behind starting her podcast, and how God uses her unique gifts to reach others. Explore with us the power of storytelling, vulnerability, and how young Catholics are stepping out in faith to make a difference.

Amelia offers wisdom on finding God in the ordinary and encourages us to listen to His voice in our lives, most especially at that crucial transition time after high school. Don’t miss this heartwarming conversation about courage, waiting on God’s promises, and embracing your mission.

Amelia is a Roswell, Georgia, native who became active in the Life Teen program as a parishioner at St. Ann Catholic Church in Marietta, Georgia, and a student at Blessed Trinity Catholic High School. After graduation, Amelia served as a Life Teen leader and missionary each summer while attending Louisiana State University. Upon graduation from LSU, she began her career as a theology teacher at a Catholic girls’ school in New Orleans.

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Jesus Thirsts: The Miracle of the Eucharist

Deacon Steve Greco, evangelist, documentary producer


Deacon Steve Greco shares about his powerful documentary, Jesus Thirsts: The Miracle of the Eucharist, which embarks on a global journey to rediscover and revive the transformative power of the Eucharist. Engaging in dialogues with notable Catholic figures, the film explores the biblical origins of the Eucharist and shares personal stories of individuals whose lives have been transformed. Jesus Thirsts makes it unmistakably clear the Eucharist is not merely a symbol, but is indeed Jesus Christ Himself. Hear about the extraordinary fruits of the film, which is helping to reignite the faith of Catholics everywhere. With his contagious enthusiasm and remarkable stories of healing and faith restoration, Deacon Greco also shares his incredible faith journey starting from a “cradle Catholic” to becoming a leading figure in evangelization, his passion for the Eucharist, and his ministry’s impact. He stresses how God is calling all of us to return to Him, especially through the transformative power of the Eucharist, and how placing Christ at the center of our lives and marriages can transform everything.

Deacon Steve Greco admits that while born Catholic, he was largely a cultural Catholic until a co-worker introduced him to the power of the Holy Spirit in his 20s. Married to Mary Ann for 52 years, they have three children and four grandchildren. Shortly after leaving corporate life and moving to the Los Angeles area, Deacon Greco was invited to study for the diaconate and has been a Deacon for 17 years. He and his wife are actively involved in evangelization through their Spirit Filled Hearts ministry.

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Duck, Duck Groom: A Guided Journal

Anna Sonoda, LCSW, psychotherapist


Anna Sonoda, licensed clinical social worker and author of Duck, Duck, Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target, first appeared on The Family Room in December 2022, and her insights about the grooming process have continued to resonate. In this episode, Anna returns to discuss her latest project, Duck, Duck, Groom: A Guided Journal, a workbook designed to help survivors of childhood sexual abuse process their experiences and begin the journey toward healing.

The hosts reflect on their initial conversation with Anna and how her message of hope and empowerment for parents still holds significant value. The conversation dives into how grooming operates, its stages, and how parents can intervene to protect their children. Anna also shares success stories from her work across the country and offers advice on spotting the grooming process early, ensuring parents understand the steps they can take to safeguard their children. She provides thoughtful guidance on addressing the often-overlooked aspect of adult survivors dealing with past trauma.

Anna Sonoda is a graduate of Emory University, where she double majored in Anthropology and French Studies. Anna earned her Master’s degree in Social Work in 2006 at the University of Georgia School of Social Work. She received her clinical license in 2009. Anna’s clinical experiences include counseling convicted sexual offenders, residential mental health, outpatient anger management and domestic violence treatment, and dual diagnosis in both residential and outpatient settings. Her counseling experience was enhanced after she became a mother, where she saw firsthand that grooming is where adults must focus their attention. She wrote Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target for concerned parents and adults working with children. She educates individuals, groups, and agencies in order to protect children. Anna is the mother of five children, ages 5-15, and resides in Atlanta, Georgia.

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Rings of the Lord

Will Henry, teenage entrepreneur


Enjoy this incredible opportunity to sit down with 16-year-old Will Henry, the inspiring founder of Rings of the Lord. Will shares his faith journey, his entrepreneurial venture creating handmade rosaries, and how God has guided him to combine his love of business and devotion to the Blessed Mother. He reveals the history behind the Irish Penal Rosary, explains how his business helps deepen others’ prayer lives, and encourages listeners to say yes to God’s call, just as Mary did. Join us for an uplifting conversation about faith, perseverance, and the power of the rosary in today’s world.

Tune in to hear about Will’s journey and how his faith continues to inspire those around him. You won’t want to miss his wisdom on trusting in God’s plan, no matter your age, and how he’s using his business to fight spiritual battles, one rosary at a time.

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Read more about Will’s journey in this featured National Catholic Register Article,16-year-old Builds Rosary Business to Spread Devotion

Sep 26, 2024
Pierce Benefield
Group Chat Converted Me

Pierce Benefield


Dive into the powerful journey of faith with Pierce Benefield. At just 28 years old, Pierce made an inspiring conversion to Catholicism, sharing the steps that led him from a life of Protestantism and Calvinism to embracing the richness of the Catholic Church. His story is filled with both intellectual discovery and deeply personal moments of spiritual awakening. Pierce talks about how his theological studies, unexpected Facebook discussions, and profound experiences with the Eucharist and the saints led him to his final decision. Join us as we explore his conversion process, the key challenges he faced, and the incredible way God used both Scripture and tradition to guide his path.

Tune in to hear Pierce reflect on how prayer, the Church Fathers, and even a surprising moment at Mass solidified his faith. Whether you’re curious about conversion stories, theology, or the real power of charity and prayer, this episode is filled with encouragement and wisdom.

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Catholics Adopt Project

Jamie & Andy Oreffice, founders of Catholic Adopt Project


Jamie and Andy Oreffice are a couple on a mission - both were successful career people when they decided Jamie would leave the working world to raise a family. Two children later, they moved to Georgia and stumbled upon a strong Catholic community of people who loved living their faith. Their story is not unlike many in that they were born Catholic, but were picking and choosing what they wanted to believe rather than following what the Church perennially taught. One choice was their decision to limit their number of children. Later, God opened their hearts to adoption, and they now have two more children.

Adopting is a daunting process which can take over six years, and they realized that without a strong support system, adoption can be filled with roadblocks. Their ministry, Catholics Adopt Project, came from their desire to create a community whereby couples could find the support they crave when seeking to adopt. Rather than trying to reinvent the wheel, the Catholic Adopt Project gathers resources to assist families with their adoption process.

Andy’s career spans the corporate and entrepreneurial world where he successfully managed companies and now consults part-time and works on their new ministry. Jamie traveled the world as a technology consultant, designing large networks. After retiring from the business world, she continued to apply her management skills through volunteer positions as a director of admissions at her children’s school as well as sitting on the boards of a foster care review board in Arizona, and an adoption agency, and an acting school. Their four children are ages 28, 25, 16, and 13.

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Sep 4, 2024
Broken Mary

Kevin Matthews, iconic radio personality, husband, dad, grandad and author


Many people don’t understand Our Blessed Mother, but few can deny the power of a mother’s love. Kevin Matthews stumbled upon a broken statue of Mary in a filthy dumpster, and it changed his life.

Introduced to radio in college, Kevin was hooked after subbing for a friend on the student-run station. He stuck with it and became a three-time Radio Hall of Fame nominee while working at AM 1000 Loop Radio in Chicago.

Understanding we are all broken, Kevin shares a touching story about finding this broken statue of Mary and deciding to keep her broken because it echoed his own brokenness.

On a dare from a priest, Kevin stepped into a role of presenting Mary’s statue at talks, asking people to “take Mary to the broken” – anywhere that broken people could be touched by her. People would write about miracles they received and Kevin’s first book, Broken Mary, was born.

In his book, Mary’s Roadie, Kevin shares his travels on the road, using Mary’s broken statue to draw broken people to God.

Kevin Matthews is one of the most recognized radio personalities in broadcasting, having been named to the all-time list of Top Twenty Radio Personalities. He will soon be inducted into the Radio Hall of Fame.

Kevin is married to Deborah, and they have two grown children and four grandchildren.

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Living With a Terminal Diagnosis

Tracy Winsor, wife, mother, grandmother, and ministry founder


Few things will knock the wind out of your sails like a cancer diagnosis – except maybe a terminal cancer diagnosis. Tracy Winsor had been thoroughly content raising six sons and managing a highly-acclaimed non-profit when she received the diagnosis of stage-four metastatic breast cancer in 2022.

Your whole world stops at moments like these as you want desperately to find that it’s not true. Tracy shares how a priest’s statement during Confession became the key to a profound change in how she saw her diagnosis. As she says, you can become so desperate looking for an angel that you miss God.

Instead, she stresses that in difficult moments, focus on God, not what you think you need from God. With incredible humor, listen as Tracy lays out some of the powerful answers that have helped her reframe the hard stuff, taking the focus off death so that she can truly learn to live the best life she can, for however long God allows her to live it.

Tracy was the straggler in a family of four with her older siblings already in their mid-teens when she was born. As a result, she was raised as an only child with mom and grandma teaching her how to embrace her Catholic faith. Tracy graduated from Flagler College in St. Augustine, FL, with a double major in Psychology and English. She later earned her Master of Public Administration (MPA) from the University of North Florida in Jacksonville. Aside from their six sons, Tracy and John recently added their sixth grandchild. They also have two babies in heaven.

Resources

  • Be Not Afraid – www.BeNotAfraid.net - Extensive information for those interested in learning about prenatal diagnoses and trauma-informed-care.
  • The Family Room – Be Not Afraid! which aired July 17, 2024
  • If You Want to Walk on Water, You’ve Got to Get Out of The Boat by John Ortberg. This book was mentioned by Tracy as instrumental in her journey.
Aug 21, 2024
Nursery of Heaven

Cassie Everts, wife, mom, author, and speaker


The loss of a child through miscarriage or stillbirth is devastating. Yet it’s one of the few forbidden topics still prevalent today. What do you say to someone in this situation? How do you help them grieve?

Cassie Everts lost her first child just one year after her wedding. Two more miscarriages quickly followed and although Cassie and her husband had a deep and loving relationship with one another and God, they learned that surrender was a process. They also learned men and women grieve differently.

As their pain lessened, God placed it on their hearts to consider adoption. After a 3-year process, their first two sons came to them via Ghana. Surprisingly, not long after, Cassie became pregnant and four more children were born within a handful of years.

Cassie describes the fruits of this journey in the book she co-wrote, Heaven’s Nursery: Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Loss in the Lives of the Saints & Today’s Parents. Listen as Cassie reveals touching lessons which became her roadmap for others.

Cassie and her husband are the parents of five children in heaven and six at home. She was raised Catholic, attended Catholic elementary and high schools, and holds undergraduate degrees in Theology and Communication Arts from Franciscan University in Steubenville, Ohio. She is a contributing writer at many Catholic publications, including CatholicMom.com. Before becoming a full-time mom, she was a radio producer in Catholic radio for nine years.

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Living an Undivided Life

After getting a DUI in college, Jeff Schiefelbein chose to create rather than complain when God gave him a 20-year vision. That vision helped Jeff launch “Carpool,” the nation’s largest college safe-ride program and the first of many successful businesses.

Although a cradle Catholic who never wandered, lukewarm catechesis made Jeff yearn for something deeper. In his late 20’s he realized that everything removed from God and without substance felt shallow and unsatisfying. He wanted more.

That thirst for God drove Jeff to illuminate principles he discovered were universal. They worked for all humans in all relationships. He realized that if you create a culture where adults are given dignity and respect, working towards a shared vision without losing accountability, magic can happen. Encouraging people to live out these principles at home can become transformational to families, not just businesses.

This became the bedrock of Undivided Life, a strategy and culture consulting firm which uses Catholic Social Teachings to achieve healthy growth and workplace excellence in every culture. An Undivided Life is a counter-cultural life.

Biography

Jeff has received numerous accolades for his business prowess. Most notably, the National Points of Light Award in 2002 and the Texas A&M University Distinguished Young Alumni Award. His companies have also appeared dozens of times on prestigious lists.

Jeff earned a bachelor’s degree in business administration from Texas A&M University. He serves on several nonprofit boards, including The Highlands School and The Catholic Foundation.

Jeff co-hosts a live Catholic radio show on the Guadalupe Radio Network, and a weekly podcast called the BeatiDUDES. He lives in Coppell, Texas, with his wife Amanda and their seven kids.

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