The Family Room (The Quest)

Join co-hosts Mari Cleveland from St. Jude the Apostle and John Gordon and Craig Wesemeyer from St. Peter Chanel as they speak with authors, theologians, and local priests and lay leaders to provide your family encouragement, resources, and hope. Enjoy heartfelt stories and engaging conversations with Catholics who are excited to share their life experiences and acquired wisdom to help your family continue to live out your faith with joy.
Mike McCoy Ministries
Mike McCoy, past NFL defensive tackle, motivational speaker


Mike McCoy began his football career at Notre Dame University and then played 11 more years for the NFL. Although he was the #1 draft pick for the Green Bay Packers, he’s quick to divulge he was anything but an agile athlete as a child. Overweight and bullied, Mike never felt he measured up.  

His father was an alcoholic, and his family lost their home and moved in with his grandparents when Mike was in the third grade. Entrenched in a very Polish Catholic environment, Mike embraced his faith and actively participated as an altar server when Mass was still said in Latin and then spent a year in seminary before deciding he was not called to the priesthood.

In spite of an absentee father, Mike had strong male role models who encouraged him, and it was this background that led Mike to reach out to youth after his NFL career ended. As the founder and president of Mike McCoy Ministries, his passion for empowering youth helps them develop a larger vision for their lives through faith-based messages of hope and encouragement.  

Mike McCoy is a native of Erie, Pennsylvania, and a graduate of Cathedral Prep High School. He graduated from the University of Notre Dame with a BA in Economics where he played football and was a Consensus All-American. He was chosen UPI Lineman of the Year and was sixth in the Heisman Trophy balloting his senior year. He was the #1 draft choice of the Green Bay Packers where he played defensive tackle. He played eleven years in the NFL – seven with Green Bay, two with the Oakland Raiders, and two with the New York Giants. Mike received many awards including the Packers Rookie of the Year, Packers Dodge NFL Man of the Year, Notre Dame Pro Player of the Year, and induction into the Erie Pro Hall of Fame, Cathedral Prep Hall of Fame, and the Pennsylvania Sports Hall of Fame. Mike is a recipient of the Harvey Foster Humanitarian Award by the University of Notre Dame Alumni Association and was also inducted into National Polish American Sports Hall of Fame. Mike was also awarded Bronco Nagurski Legends award which recognizes the best of the best of defensive football players in the last 40 years. 

Mike served on the Board of Directors of YMCA Camp High Harbour, Camp Hope in Georgia, Pro Athletes Outreach, and Wisconsin Special Olympics. He speaks primarily in Catholic schools across America and abroad. He has also been a speaker for the National Catholic Educators Convention, Catholic Men’s Rallies, Bill Glass Ministries in prisons, and to parents and coaches through the Notre Dame Play Like a Champion program.  

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Sacred Heart Enthronement Network
 Emily Jaminet, author, podcaster, ministry foundress


Enthronement to the Sacred Heart of Jesus is the fulfillment of a request Jesus made to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque in the 1670s when He said, “I will bless every place in which an image of my Heart is exposed and honored.” Emily Jaminet has taken this promise to heart and founded a ministry to promote enthronement far and wide.

Emily’s love for the Sacred Heart goes back to fond childhood memories of her grandparents’ devotion to the special significance of this request to St. Margaret Mary in the 1600’s. It was later approved by the Church in 1907. She has written two books on the Sacred Heart, Holy Habits from the Sacred Heart, which identifies ten habits and virtues we can learn from Jesus, and Secrets of the Sacred Heart, where Emily highlights twelve ways to claim Jesus’ promises in your life.  

This enthronement movement centers on giving your heart and your home to the Lord, making Him the center of your life. Allowing Jesus’ love to penetrate your heart changes you from the inside. Emily shares how the act of enthroning your home has broken down numerous strongholds in those families who have embraced it.  
 
Emily has been married to her husband, John, for 26 years, and they are the parents of seven children. Aside from being surrounded by generations of family devoted to God, Emily has pursued her faith by graduating from the University of Steubenville and spearheading several ministries, including co-founding a ministry called “Inspire the Faith.”  Emily has also authored or co-authored six books.  

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Dec 4, 2024
Touch of Dance
Uta Trogele, motivational speaker and culture influencer


When native German Uta Trogele realized young people were distancing themselves from one another in favor of electronic relationships, she created an alternative that would be fun and educational at the same time. Having represented Germany in basketball as well as becoming a physical education teacher, Uta understood that physical touch is one of our most basic human needs.

The culture offers counterfeit versions of love and freedom which leave us anxious, overwhelmed, and unfulfilled. Based in part on Pope St. John Paul II’s “Theology of the Body” (TOB), Uta co-founded The Culture Project, which is a team of young adults who counsel students about human dignity and self-worth, emphasizing how living a virtuous life can change the world. These missionary teams give dynamic presentations to middle and high schoolers as well as young adults on the benefits of sexual integrity and healthy living in an online culture. 

The success of this project propelled Uta to follow God’s prodding to introduce yet another program, Touch of Dance, to foster self-respect by combining TOB with ballroom dance. Using Christopher West’s study, Freedom to Love, Touch of Dance provides an opportunity to embody key concepts from TOB in a concrete, engaging, and fun format. Hosting a dance night for students where food is served and dance etiquette is explained gives them a confident awareness of their inherent dignity.  

Born in Protestant Northern Germany to a devout Catholic family, Uta always felt close to God, even attending Mass throughout her college years.  She attended the University of Washington in Seattle and then achieved a Masters of Education in Physical Education and History in 1984 at the University of Gottingen in Gottingen, Germany.  Uta and her husband of 38 years love to travel internationally and have lived in  several states within America, now living in California. They are the proud parents of a daughter and three grandchildren.  

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  • The Culture Project
  • To find out more about Uta’s project, Touch of Dance, email her directly at EmailTouchofDance@gmail.com
Super Habits Can Change Your Life
Dr. Andrew Abela, author, college professor


When we think of leaving a legacy for our grandchildren, lofty goals often take a back burner to simple things like honesty and integrity.  Yet, for too many of us, our successes can be undermined by a life filled with unhappiness and regret. 

Dr. Andrew Abela saw the chronic discontent all around and sought to create a way to help people see what ancient philosophers saw. Namely, pursuing virtue can change our entire life. Dr. Abela shows us how applying time-honored small steps in everyday life can propel us into a better life story worthy of a lasting legacy.

Superhabits: The Universal System for a Successful Life by Dr. Andrew Abela shows how attaining virtue does not require exhaustive trial and error but rather, steady daily practice, which is available to everyone. He explains how the genius of a thirteenth-century philosopher-monk codified super habits into a veritable human operating system where learning to practice self-discipline in small steps becomes the hallmark to successful transformation.  Using current real-life stories, Dr. Abela demonstrates how developing the super habit of virtue can not only transform our own life, but our culture as well.  

Dr. Abela is the founding dean of the Busch School of Business at the Catholic University of America in Washington, D.C. His award-winning, widely-cited research on integrity and effectiveness in business has been published in several academic journals and in three books. He speaks to business leaders around the world about cultivating the super habits of success personally and in their organizations. Prior to his academic career, Dr. Abela was a brand manager at Procter & Gamble, management consultant with McKinsey & Company, and Managing Director at the Corporate Executive Board. He holds an MBA from the Institute for Management Development in Switzerland and a Ph.D. from the Darden Business School at the University of Virginia. He and his wife, Kathleen, live in Great Falls, Virginia, and have been blessed with six children and their first grandchild.

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Challenging the Transgender Ideology
Mary Rice Hasson, policy expert on gender ideology

Transgenderism is fundamentally a rejection of what we’ve received as a son or daughter of God. Misguided advocates teach we should be able to create our own identity based on feelings.

Mary Rice Hasson is an attorney who has tackled the tsunami of gender confusion. She co-founded the “Person and Identity Project” (PIP) which aims to equip parents and faith-based institutions with the facts, resources, and expertise to promote an authentic vision of the human person and counter the culture when it comes to gender ideology. PIP experts speak, write, and conduct workshops on gender ideology so that, together, we can change the dialogue around gender. Rather than submitting to a false compassion which tries to coerce us into affirming a false narrative about the human body, PIP helps strengthen parents, pastors, and educators with appropriate language to guide their children and others to confidently affirm the truth.

Mary Rice Hasson was born into a strong Catholic family at a critical time when Church teachings were being discarded. Her parents picked up the slack and educated her in Catholic schools. A graduate of the University of Notre Dame and Notre Dame Law School, Mary is married to Seamus Hasson, and they are parents of seven grown children and grandparents of seven. Mary was diagnosed with M.S. during her sixth pregnancy and then her husband was diagnosed with Parkinson’s two years later. Rather than succumb to pity, they are living witnesses of trusting and surrendering to God. Currently, Mary’s M.S. is under control, and Seamus is wheelchair bound. 

Mary Rice Hasson is the Kate O’Beirne Senior Fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center in Washington, D.C. An attorney and policy expert, Mary has been a keynote speaker for the Holy See during the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women, addressing education, women and work, caregiving, and gender ideology, and serves as a consultant to the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family, Life, and Youth. She speaks frequently at national conferences, universities, and in dioceses across the country and has testified before the U.S. Senate, state legislatures, and the Australian parliament on parents’ rights and transgender issues.

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- Person and Identity Project (PIP)
- Catholic Women’s Forum:  The Catholic Women’s Forum provides a network for Catholic women scholars seeking fellowship and to influence the culture, and offers a forum for Catholic women to share faith, inspiration, and resources.
- Get Out Now: Why You Should Pull Your Child From Public School Before It’s Too Late by Mary Rice Hasson and Theresa Farnan, PhD
Forgiveness in Marriage
Fr. Elias Dorham, Melkite Catholic priest

Few people think of calling a Catholic priest “Grandpa,” but fewer still know there are more than 20 Eastern rites in the Catholic church, all of which are self-governing churches under the Pope, and most of which permit married priests. Fr. Elias Dorham, pastor of St. John Chrysostom Melkite Catholic Church in Atlanta, gives a short explanation of the differences between the Latin rite and the Eastern rites within the Catholic Church.

Having been married over 30 years and raising 10 children, Father Elias realized in his pastoral ministry that couples rarely create a safe place in their relationship for disagreements, often believing married couples shouldn’t fight. That led him to create a marriage-enrichment program which reframes the experience of conflict, offering couples solid guidelines for healthy marriages with healthy boundaries.

Through this online interactive workshop called “The 7 Principles Workshop,” couples learn that marriage is a place where they live out their witness to Christ, learning to ask for and extend forgiveness as a critical part of their path to Salvation. Partnering with Mount Tabor Counseling Center in Colorado, Fr. Elias facilitates this workshop, walking couples through the principles of effective marriages.

Fr. Elias was raised by his grandparents in a home without religion, and it wasn’t until his days in the Naval Academy that he felt called to explore Christianity. He was baptized Catholic in 1991 and married his wife, Sylvia, shortly after graduation. They have 10 children, ages 30 down to 7 and 3 grandchildren (so far).

His extensive scholastic achievements include a Doctor of Ministry from St Vladimir’s Orthodox Theological Seminary. He also has an M.A. in Theological Studies from Christendom College, an M.S. in Information Systems Technology from the Naval Postgraduate School, and a B.S. in Political Science from the United States Naval Academy. Prior to ordination, his professional experience encompassed coaching and leadership development across the military, federal/local government, and technology sectors. Areas of particular interest include marriage-related ministry, Sacred Scripture, and liturgical theology.

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Leading Your Family Toward Heaven
Amanda and Jeff Schiefelbein, parents of seven children

Returning guest Jeff Schiefelbein and his wife, Amanda, share the journey of raising a family deeply rooted in faith. Jeff, a celebrated entrepreneur and father, previously gave listeners a glimpse of his faith-driven approach to life. This time, alongside Amanda, the conversation delves into the authentic joys and trials of leading a family of seven children, their commitment to Catholic values, and the powerful bond that prayer and intentionality bring to their marriage and parenting.

Listen as Jeff and Amanda, a fellow Aggie, recount personal stories of faith, vulnerability, and how they navigate their roles as parents and partners. From touching moments with their children to the strength found in sacramental grace, the Schiefelbeins provide wisdom and practical advice for nurturing a holy family amid life’s chaos.

Jeff and Amanda’s journey demonstrates that leading a family toward Heaven is about intention, love, and steadfast trust in God. As Jeff said, “Life’s trials are where God is most present.”

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Former Abortionist Discovers Mercy

Dr. John Bruchalski, founder of Divine Mercy Care


Discover compelling insights as former abortionist Dr. John Bruchalski takes us on his journey from abortion to life-affirming medicine. Dr. Bruchalski shares his powerful story of conversion and healing, giving listeners a look into the complexities he faced as a young Ob-Gyn. Once entrenched in the pro-choice medical establishment, Dr. Bruchalski’s transformative experiences - including a pivotal spiritual encounter - led him to found Divine Mercy Care and Tepeyac Ob/Gyn, offering compassionate, pro-life medical care for women and families. Packed with eye-opening, personal stories, this episode sheds light on the impact of faith, the power of mercy, and the healing process for those affected by abortion. Dr. Bruchalski shares candidly, reminding us that grace and redemption are available to all.

Dr. B, as he likes to be called, earned his medical degree from the University of South Alabama College of Medicine in 1987. He completed his Ob/Gyn residency at Eastern Virginia Medical Center and the Jones Institute for Reproductive Medicine in Norfolk, Virginia, in 1991. Dr. B received board certification in 1993. He and his wife, Carolyn, are the parents of two grown sons and one granddaughter.

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The Heart That God Gave You

Amelia Bielski, podcast creator


Amelia Bielski, the inspiring creator and host of The Heart That God Gave You podcast, shares her journey of faith, the inspiration behind starting her podcast, and how God uses her unique gifts to reach others. Explore with us the power of storytelling, vulnerability, and how young Catholics are stepping out in faith to make a difference.

Amelia offers wisdom on finding God in the ordinary and encourages us to listen to His voice in our lives, most especially at that crucial transition time after high school. Don’t miss this heartwarming conversation about courage, waiting on God’s promises, and embracing your mission.

Amelia is a Roswell, Georgia, native who became active in the Life Teen program as a parishioner at St. Ann Catholic Church in Marietta, Georgia, and a student at Blessed Trinity Catholic High School. After graduation, Amelia served as a Life Teen leader and missionary each summer while attending Louisiana State University. Upon graduation from LSU, she began her career as a theology teacher at a Catholic girls’ school in New Orleans.

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Jesus Thirsts: The Miracle of the Eucharist

Deacon Steve Greco, evangelist, documentary producer


Deacon Steve Greco shares about his powerful documentary, Jesus Thirsts: The Miracle of the Eucharist, which embarks on a global journey to rediscover and revive the transformative power of the Eucharist. Engaging in dialogues with notable Catholic figures, the film explores the biblical origins of the Eucharist and shares personal stories of individuals whose lives have been transformed. Jesus Thirsts makes it unmistakably clear the Eucharist is not merely a symbol, but is indeed Jesus Christ Himself. Hear about the extraordinary fruits of the film, which is helping to reignite the faith of Catholics everywhere. With his contagious enthusiasm and remarkable stories of healing and faith restoration, Deacon Greco also shares his incredible faith journey starting from a “cradle Catholic” to becoming a leading figure in evangelization, his passion for the Eucharist, and his ministry’s impact. He stresses how God is calling all of us to return to Him, especially through the transformative power of the Eucharist, and how placing Christ at the center of our lives and marriages can transform everything.

Deacon Steve Greco admits that while born Catholic, he was largely a cultural Catholic until a co-worker introduced him to the power of the Holy Spirit in his 20s. Married to Mary Ann for 52 years, they have three children and four grandchildren. Shortly after leaving corporate life and moving to the Los Angeles area, Deacon Greco was invited to study for the diaconate and has been a Deacon for 17 years. He and his wife are actively involved in evangelization through their Spirit Filled Hearts ministry.

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Duck, Duck Groom: A Guided Journal

Anna Sonoda, LCSW, psychotherapist


Anna Sonoda, licensed clinical social worker and author of Duck, Duck, Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target, first appeared on The Family Room in December 2022, and her insights about the grooming process have continued to resonate. In this episode, Anna returns to discuss her latest project, Duck, Duck, Groom: A Guided Journal, a workbook designed to help survivors of childhood sexual abuse process their experiences and begin the journey toward healing.

The hosts reflect on their initial conversation with Anna and how her message of hope and empowerment for parents still holds significant value. The conversation dives into how grooming operates, its stages, and how parents can intervene to protect their children. Anna also shares success stories from her work across the country and offers advice on spotting the grooming process early, ensuring parents understand the steps they can take to safeguard their children. She provides thoughtful guidance on addressing the often-overlooked aspect of adult survivors dealing with past trauma.

Anna Sonoda is a graduate of Emory University, where she double majored in Anthropology and French Studies. Anna earned her Master’s degree in Social Work in 2006 at the University of Georgia School of Social Work. She received her clinical license in 2009. Anna’s clinical experiences include counseling convicted sexual offenders, residential mental health, outpatient anger management and domestic violence treatment, and dual diagnosis in both residential and outpatient settings. Her counseling experience was enhanced after she became a mother, where she saw firsthand that grooming is where adults must focus their attention. She wrote Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target for concerned parents and adults working with children. She educates individuals, groups, and agencies in order to protect children. Anna is the mother of five children, ages 5-15, and resides in Atlanta, Georgia.

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Rings of the Lord

Will Henry, teenage entrepreneur


Enjoy this incredible opportunity to sit down with 16-year-old Will Henry, the inspiring founder of Rings of the Lord. Will shares his faith journey, his entrepreneurial venture creating handmade rosaries, and how God has guided him to combine his love of business and devotion to the Blessed Mother. He reveals the history behind the Irish Penal Rosary, explains how his business helps deepen others’ prayer lives, and encourages listeners to say yes to God’s call, just as Mary did. Join us for an uplifting conversation about faith, perseverance, and the power of the rosary in today’s world.

Tune in to hear about Will’s journey and how his faith continues to inspire those around him. You won’t want to miss his wisdom on trusting in God’s plan, no matter your age, and how he’s using his business to fight spiritual battles, one rosary at a time.

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Read more about Will’s journey in this featured National Catholic Register Article,16-year-old Builds Rosary Business to Spread Devotion

Sep 26, 2024
Pierce Benefield
Group Chat Converted Me

Pierce Benefield


Dive into the powerful journey of faith with Pierce Benefield. At just 28 years old, Pierce made an inspiring conversion to Catholicism, sharing the steps that led him from a life of Protestantism and Calvinism to embracing the richness of the Catholic Church. His story is filled with both intellectual discovery and deeply personal moments of spiritual awakening. Pierce talks about how his theological studies, unexpected Facebook discussions, and profound experiences with the Eucharist and the saints led him to his final decision. Join us as we explore his conversion process, the key challenges he faced, and the incredible way God used both Scripture and tradition to guide his path.

Tune in to hear Pierce reflect on how prayer, the Church Fathers, and even a surprising moment at Mass solidified his faith. Whether you’re curious about conversion stories, theology, or the real power of charity and prayer, this episode is filled with encouragement and wisdom.

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Catholics Adopt Project

Jamie & Andy Oreffice, founders of Catholic Adopt Project


Jamie and Andy Oreffice are a couple on a mission - both were successful career people when they decided Jamie would leave the working world to raise a family. Two children later, they moved to Georgia and stumbled upon a strong Catholic community of people who loved living their faith. Their story is not unlike many in that they were born Catholic, but were picking and choosing what they wanted to believe rather than following what the Church perennially taught. One choice was their decision to limit their number of children. Later, God opened their hearts to adoption, and they now have two more children.

Adopting is a daunting process which can take over six years, and they realized that without a strong support system, adoption can be filled with roadblocks. Their ministry, Catholics Adopt Project, came from their desire to create a community whereby couples could find the support they crave when seeking to adopt. Rather than trying to reinvent the wheel, the Catholic Adopt Project gathers resources to assist families with their adoption process.

Andy’s career spans the corporate and entrepreneurial world where he successfully managed companies and now consults part-time and works on their new ministry. Jamie traveled the world as a technology consultant, designing large networks. After retiring from the business world, she continued to apply her management skills through volunteer positions as a director of admissions at her children’s school as well as sitting on the boards of a foster care review board in Arizona, and an adoption agency, and an acting school. Their four children are ages 28, 25, 16, and 13.

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